I've always been told that "actions speak louder than words". I deeply disagree. I've watched the people in this world do what they do. But before judging I question their intention. I think before I speak. Have we not all unintentionally hurt someone by doing what is right ? If so then I thank you. If not, let me explain.
As kid you intend to be really curious. And a famous curiosity is the curiosity of love. Boys and girls get their heart broken, hence, cheated on, used, rejected, mistreated. But like all organisms we grow. And as humans we often settle down over the years and create a new life. Let's say a baby girl. This beautiful creation-YOUR CREATION, a portion of yourself, is in your arms. Only three months old. So young, so beautiful. You close your eyes for a split second and your child is now 15 years old. Has a crush on another person of the same age group. You know what it is like to grow up and get hurt. And you've protected this creation of yours from all harm, knowing you can not do that forever. You tell your one of a kind child that she isn't ready, that she can't go out with that person. She thinks to herself Why ? Why me ? This isn't fair ! Why do they want me to be alone ? why can't I date ? Why are they suddenly hating me ? Random thoughts of questioning your command. But don't worry. It is only temporary. She is just hurt. Hurt because she does not understand your intentions. You think to yourself Its just for the best. She does it anyway and got used for sex. You hold her in your arms and think I tried to prevent this. Then you tell her "I love you ".
Another example would be:
A single mother have recently just had a baby boy. She has no money. No food. No family. And not even a home. All she had was a heart. When the time came when she was to leave the hospital with her child she searched for the best orphanage in town. And so she gave her only precious treasure to the arms of another woman. And before the mother dared to say good bye she held her baby in her arms, whispered to his ear "I love you". Gave him a big kiss on the lips. And the women grabbed the baby and said to the mother "God bless you". Years passed and the boy like any other orphan thought that his mother didn't love him. On the boy's eleventh birthday the orphanage received a call for the boy. The caller requested to meet the boy today and insisted that the orphanage creates an appointment today. And so they did. The boy was sent to sit in the waiting room for the mysterious caller. As soon as he heard high heel foot steps he turned to see what appeared to be a moderate wealthy woman. She ran to him and dropped to her knees, holding him oh so tight in her arms. She whispered again in his ear "I love you". He then knew that this strange woman was no other than his mother. And that his mother have came back for him. She regains his custody and takes him home. "I love you too". They went home. This time, she had food, money, a home, and most importantly has more love than ever.
I have many other examples but I suppose these true stories probably bored you.
As kid you intend to be really curious. And a famous curiosity is the curiosity of love. Boys and girls get their heart broken, hence, cheated on, used, rejected, mistreated. But like all organisms we grow. And as humans we often settle down over the years and create a new life. Let's say a baby girl. This beautiful creation-YOUR CREATION, a portion of yourself, is in your arms. Only three months old. So young, so beautiful. You close your eyes for a split second and your child is now 15 years old. Has a crush on another person of the same age group. You know what it is like to grow up and get hurt. And you've protected this creation of yours from all harm, knowing you can not do that forever. You tell your one of a kind child that she isn't ready, that she can't go out with that person. She thinks to herself Why ? Why me ? This isn't fair ! Why do they want me to be alone ? why can't I date ? Why are they suddenly hating me ? Random thoughts of questioning your command. But don't worry. It is only temporary. She is just hurt. Hurt because she does not understand your intentions. You think to yourself Its just for the best. She does it anyway and got used for sex. You hold her in your arms and think I tried to prevent this. Then you tell her "I love you ".
Another example would be:
A single mother have recently just had a baby boy. She has no money. No food. No family. And not even a home. All she had was a heart. When the time came when she was to leave the hospital with her child she searched for the best orphanage in town. And so she gave her only precious treasure to the arms of another woman. And before the mother dared to say good bye she held her baby in her arms, whispered to his ear "I love you". Gave him a big kiss on the lips. And the women grabbed the baby and said to the mother "God bless you". Years passed and the boy like any other orphan thought that his mother didn't love him. On the boy's eleventh birthday the orphanage received a call for the boy. The caller requested to meet the boy today and insisted that the orphanage creates an appointment today. And so they did. The boy was sent to sit in the waiting room for the mysterious caller. As soon as he heard high heel foot steps he turned to see what appeared to be a moderate wealthy woman. She ran to him and dropped to her knees, holding him oh so tight in her arms. She whispered again in his ear "I love you". He then knew that this strange woman was no other than his mother. And that his mother have came back for him. She regains his custody and takes him home. "I love you too". They went home. This time, she had food, money, a home, and most importantly has more love than ever.
I have many other examples but I suppose these true stories probably bored you.
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